THE ORACLE

Last week, I was in my bed late at night watching “Telemundo”. Towards the end I couldn’t stop crying and I was surprised that I couldn’t really tell why I was crying so deeply… after a while it hit me …

Helen Fisher, “Anatomy of Love and The Sex Contract.,” is required reading in many graduate programs for future Marriage and Family Therapists. Helen Fisher is a Biological Anthropologist who has studied the human brain in love. Some of her findings indicate that we are …

“As exciting as a relationship with the ‘Big Cheese’ might be, don’t do it. It won’t end well and you will be left wondering why you did it in the first place.   We spend more time at work than …

No doubt about it: The first time a woman beds down with a guy she’s crazy about is an exciting and special time. Still, the question remains: When? Well, it depends. Some women are happy to get down to business …

 If your partner gets you well enough to know your frozen yogurt preference, he or she can probably tell if you’re faking an orgasm.   According to a new study on sexual satisfaction in longterm relationships, couples don’t necessarily need a post-coital …

A very poor man lived with his wife whose hair was very long. One day the wife asked her husband to buy her a comb for her long hair so that it would continue to grow well and be well groomed. …

When love involves an initial state of bliss, it can later make you feel sick or crazy whether or not the object of your affection has left your life. Bliss is an emotion that people seek. A surge of extreme …

One day, a young guy and a young girl fell in love. But the guy came from a poor family. The girl’s parents weren’t too happy. So the young man decided not only to court the girl but to court …

Microsoft and Apple have joined forces to cut down on infidelity, save marriages and keep people in relationships accountable for their actions. Together, the technology giants have created a “genital implant” that will alert your cell phone if your partner …

It all started when I got married to my best friend in October 2000.  We were in our late 20’s, both working, both healthy and everything seemed fine.  My husband had a lower sex drive than I did and was …

I thought I would share with you all, something that I have noticed over the past few years which bothers me quite a bit. I’m not sure if this is just an annoying symptom of being in a sexless marriage …

Dating and courtship are two methods of beginning relationships with the opposite sex. While there are non-Christians who date with the intention of having a series of intimate physical relationships, for the Christian this is not acceptable and should never …

Marriage is a beautiful experience at the level of thought. The thought of a man and a woman in love sharing the rest of their lives together is indeed a pleasurable experience. Living together, talking together, laughing together, sharing together, …

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does …

“What therefore God has put together, let not man separate.” (Matthew 19:6) I have learned that even after 23 years of marriage, I must continue to be intentional about keeping my marriage strong. Here’s a story of one surprising way I …

When we take time to actually understand people, our lives will change. There seems to be a theme in many of my friends’ lives recently, where they will complain about someone and make them wrong for what they are thinking …

The early years of my marriage to Karen were filled with anger. We fought all the time, and created several issues we simply couldn’t talk about because it always resulted in a fight. We fought so much we were numb. …

I lifted the phone out of my husband’s hands. He was so tired that he’d fallen asleep in bed while texting. I’d come home late from an out-of-town trip to find him in bed. As I went to plug in his …

Although I have fallen in love several times in my life, I have really only been in love once. Doesn’t seem to add up, does it? Well, I have only fallen in love one time, at a point in my …

The first woman I ever fell in love with didn’t feel the same way about me. This wasn’t some sort of crush either. I really did fall in love and she really didn’t care for me that much. Sure, we …