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Sometimes, there’s more to lust than meets the eye. l know that one special person who has the ability to set our pulse racing just by showing up. The one you crush on harder than a row of cherries in …

The issue of break ups in a relationship is never a new story to me. I’ve heard many stories concerning break ups in relationships from many sought of lives but to be the narrator of this story was never part …

  I have been the class representative and college secretary when I was growing up. Naturally, when I came into a new job, I felt lost among all the experienced people who knew so much more than I did. Am …

When I met her, it was completely unexpected. I was exiting a marriage, focused on health, and parenting my little heart out. At first, it was all business as I was introduced to her as a client. As time went …

The Average Length of Sex Is Difficult To Determine Firstly, it should be understood that there is no agreed upon method for measuring what constitutes “sex.” For some men and some studies, sex is strictly comprised of intercourse; lasting from …

It was a memorable night. But not for the right reasons. At least, not for the reasons you think. I was a final year student in a school of very high repute. And I had been dating my boyfriend for …

I’m not one to have casual relationships. I’ve been in a long term relationship, and I had a couple of short-term ones. But never casual, I don’t seem to know how to do it. Casual implies no commitment, and that …

I spent six years to love him, and him only being my first love. He was the only person that knew me that well, the only person that I could trust. After all that we had been through, I never …

I’m not sure it’s possible to justify my liaisons with married men, but what I learned from having them warrants discussion. Not between the wives and me, though I would be interested to hear their side. No, this discussion should …

I had started using the secret about four years ago when I had issues with my health. I learned to restructure my thoughts to think more positively and to not worry about the negative. I was that person that worried …

I STARTED DREAMING ABOUT HIMI’ve heard it been said that when you dream of someone they dream of you too. Is this true? My Ex and I broke up over 12 years ago. My now husband and I started dating, …

Love. It is one of the first emotions that we experience, regardless of what your definition of love is. It could have been when your parents first held you in their arms, or it could have been experienced when you …

Adam and I clicked when he interviewed me for the job. He was very good-looking – tall and broad-shouldered. The week I started, we drove to Liverpool to meet clients. We laughed all the way back. When he dropped me off I …

Maybe you fell into the wrong person, wrong relationship, wrong time, wrong place. Maybe you gave everything to a connection you thought was real and permanent and you ended up alone. Maybe you trusted, shared your life, made a promise …

Whether you’re single or in a decade-long relationship, it’s likely coronavirus has had an impact on your love life. With Illinois’ “stay-at-home” order and new social distancing rules in place, the pandemic has fundamentally changed how we’re supposed to interact …

One fine day, an old couple around the age of 70, walks into a lawyer’s office. Apparently, they are there to file a divorce. Lawyer was very puzzled, after having a chat with them, he got their story. This couple …

The confusion that comes before we know how they feel and the nights we stay up wondering if they want us, if they like us if they care and wondering if they are thinking about us as much as we’re …

I will never forget my decision on the 13th of April 2008 that led to the journey of bitterness in my life and marriage. I was a very simple and loving girl until I met Dayo. My mother warned me, …

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” Often when people want a new relationship, they either look for someone to complete them or they imagine sharing their life with someone just like them. So they …

I met him when he moved in next door to me. We became friends and later he moved in with me and we became an item. He had me hook, line and sinker, a real charmer. He was a rebel, …