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The Oracle is the human angle of MMS Plus which treats issues of relationship and its management for the promotion of family value and decent relationship

ARE THERE MISTAKES IN LOVE?

ARE THERE MISTAKES IN LOVE?

Maybe you fell into the wrong person, wrong relationship, wrong time, wrong place. Maybe you gave everything to a connection you thought was real and permanent and you ended up alone. Maybe you trusted, shared your life, made a promise ...

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LOVE AND DATING DURING COVID-19 PANDEMIC

LOVE AND DATING DURING COVID-19 PANDEMIC

Whether you’re single or in a decade-long relationship, it’s likely coronavirus has had an impact on your love life. With Illinois’ “stay-at-home” order and new social distancing rules in place, the pandemic has fundamentally changed how we’re supposed to interact ...

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THE EVERLASTING LOVE

ARE THERE MISTAKES IN LOVE?

One fine day, an old couple around the age of 70, walks into a lawyer’s office. Apparently, they are there to file a divorce. Lawyer was very puzzled, after having a chat with them, he got their story. This couple ...

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IS IT LOVE THAT HURTS?

ARE THERE MISTAKES IN LOVE?

The confusion that comes before we know how they feel and the nights we stay up wondering if they want us, if they like us if they care and wondering if they are thinking about us as much as we’re ...

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MY HOT TEMPERED HUSBAND

I will never forget my decision on the 13th of April 2008 that led to the journey of bitterness in my life and marriage. I was a very simple and loving girl until I met Dayo. My mother warned me, ...

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THE NIGHT I MET MY HUSBAND

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” Often when people want a new relationship, they either look for someone to complete them or they imagine sharing their life with someone just like them. So they ...

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I CHANGED MY NAME AND BEGAN TO REBUILD MY LIFE

I CHANGED MY NAME AND BEGAN TO REBUILD MY LIFE

I met him when he moved in next door to me. We became friends and later he moved in with me and we became an item. He had me hook, line and sinker, a real charmer. He was a rebel, ...

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WHY EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS COULD BE RIGHT

WHY EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS COULD BE RIGHT

Your wedding vows talk about a lifetime together, a life of unwavering loyalty, one of getting old together, through good and bad times. But as years pass by, that spurt of love turns into monotony. This is when you discover the ...

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I LEARNED HE NEVER REALLY LOVED ME

I LEARNED HE NEVER REALLY LOVED ME

I don’t know why I answered my ex’s text message last weekend. I guess I was bored because my love life is more or less nonexistent. I also hadn’t heard from him in a while, and the curious part of me ...

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HOW IT FEELS TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS YOU

HOW IT FEELS TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS YOU

Dating, for me, has always been a little bit wearing. My past relationships required too much effort (from both sides), and I never felt like I could be myself. I don’t think anyone was at fault; I wasn’t right for the ...

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RED LININGS

I met Charles some months back. I still remember vividly how it happened. It was the morning I left Lagos for coal camp. I was with my backpack and a heavy suitcase standing at a park very similar to this ...

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I PURSUED HIM AND CERTAINLY DIDN’T PLAY IT COOL

I bet that’s a headline you never thought you’d read. Time and time again we’re reminded that men do the chasing and women must sit back and let men chase them. Women should pretend not to be interested because that ...

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IF I DIE, WILL YOU REMARRY?

IF I DIE, WILL YOU REMARRY?

The other day a younger friend, a woman in her twenties, called to share news of her engagement. She’s been dating a great-seeming guy for about a year, and she sounded exuberant, glowing, over the moon. “Congratulations, Eleanor! I’m so ...

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I TRIED LOVING OTHERS, BUT IT NEVER WORKED OUT

It’s funny how things never really turn out the way you thought they would. Reality is different from our expectations, and most of the time that doesn’t really bother us. When the unexpected happens, it’s usually not an issue. We ...

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Does Size matter?

Does Size matters?

For many men around the world, one very intimate subject has often been a source of anxiety: the size of their genitals. These worries are fueled by many sources, ranging from widespread misconceptions about typical penis size, popular overemphasis on ...

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THE DANGEROUS CHARM OF SECRET LOVE

THE DANGEROUS CHARM OF SECRET LOVE

Love grows and ignites with greater force when it comes along with a larger small dose of impossibility. Passion never burns as hot as when it is cross with some prohibition. And if it must be kept secret, all the ...

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ROMANCE: THE POWER SUPPLY TO RELATIONSHIP

ROMANCE: THE POWER SUPPLY TO RELATIONSHIP

Last week, I was in my bed late at night watching “Telemundo”. Towards the end I couldn’t stop crying and I was surprised that I couldn’t really tell why I was crying so deeply… after a while it hit me ...

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THE FEELING OF LOVE IS HEALTHY

Helen Fisher, “Anatomy of Love and The Sex Contract.,” is required reading in many graduate programs for future Marriage and Family Therapists. Helen Fisher is a Biological Anthropologist who has studied the human brain in love. Some of her findings indicate that we are ...

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WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE YOUR BOSS

WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE YOUR BOSS

“As exciting as a relationship with the ‘Big Cheese’ might be, don’t do it. It won’t end well and you will be left wondering why you did it in the first place.   We spend more time at work than ...

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FIGURE OUT IF HE’S INTERESTED IN YOU OR IN SEX

FIGURE OUT IF HE’S INTERESTED IN YOU OR IN SEX

No doubt about it: The first time a woman beds down with a guy she’s crazy about is an exciting and special time. Still, the question remains: When? Well, it depends. Some women are happy to get down to business ...

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